FOBD is right. Alot of us would cut off their right arms and perhaps other things for the amount they are being used right now, to be where you are.

PATIENCE is the word. Dont do or say anything right now to evoke doubt in her mind. Be the rock and address the situation of the funeral and tha you are there for HER. If you initiate R talk at this point she may see you as being somebody that is taking advantage of a bad situation to further HIS own gains.

Keep fighting the good fight.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11