Harrier - Hang in there man. We all know that this process is a roller-coaster with many many many ups and downs. You're in a down right now. But that just means that an up will be coming when you least expect it. I know it's hard. It's probably the hardest thing you've ever had to do, I know it is for me. And it [censored] and it's not fair and you want to scream and run away. But would you quit a marathon in the middle? Apparently not since you've done 5 of them. Why would you quit this than? It's much more important that a road race, wouldn't you agree?
It's never too late to develop patience. If you haven't had it, start right the F now. Stop saying you can't do it and man up and f-ing do it. Always remember the best quote of all time: "Do or Do Not. There is No try." - Yoda.
You know what my IC told me? She said look either working on your marriage or heading towards D, you aren't going to be having sex right now either way, so why focus on it so much? Good question.
Remember not to believe what she says and only half of what she does. My coach gave me something good: tell yourself that She's trying to stay away from you, but man o man you know she can't hold out forever. You're that good.
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