First, very cool she can change her own oil. I just learned how to pump my own gas!!
I think it's good to have conversations that don't include M. I think it's better, in fact. If that's all you're talking about, then she'll go running for the hills because of the pressure. Listen, I just had a physical yesterday. All my life, including up through November last year, I had VERRRRRRRRRY low blood pressure. At times, it was an issue. Yesterday, I had high blood pressure. The stress of the situation is too much. That's where you come in. You can make every interaction as happy as possible. Try to have more of these light ones. They are great for healing!!!
