She has always been a very social person and has many close friends (both male and female)and she has always managed the social calendar during our M. Since becomming unemployed, she has devoted much time to Facebook and going out 2-3 times per week while I stay w/kids. She says going out with friends is only thing that keeps her happy and sane.
Hi Geo,
We all need our GAL stuff, but more than once or twice per week (primarily on the weekends, and coming home at a decent hour) is inappropriate, at best, for a mother of two -- one with special needs. At worst, it's a huge red flag, considering her past infidelity.
Is she going out on weeknights/schoolnights? What time does she come home?
Constantly texting her and checking on her makes you look needy and controlling. You'd do better to set a simple (but firm) boundary here, rather than tracking her down like Needy Controlling Guy.
