DNO thinks that my W is looking for me to rise to the challenge of staying with her. I think staying with her emotional storms in a calm, listening yet sharing manner is a way of rising to the challenge. We'll stay the course and see.
CL
CL,
Are you sure you don't just believe that because it's easier for you to do?
At best, you're mindreading her here. At worst, you're shying from the tougher challenge.