...but I am done being a door mat and I am done being used by a drug user...until he cleans up and loses drug buddies..I will not have him in my life...maybe not good db practice, but good self preservation...
Self-preservation comes first in the hierarchy when it comes to abuse situations, Res. Only after he gets help for his drug (and OW) addictions, will you be in a position to DB him. For now, you have to save yourself, and pray that he gets the help he needs.
