Karen, there is something that I am not understanding here. If you KNOW you do all of these things and you KNOW that they are detrimental to your R then WHY don't you address them?? WHY come here and tell us that you already KNOW what you do wrong and WHY even (you reference psychobabble bs a lot) and then just sit there on your thumbs and do NOTHING?? You went for 6 weeks (again a constant reference) and was doing well...what happened that you decided to get lazy again and do NOTHING??

Until you address the problems that you repeatedly say you KNOW exhist your R/M hasn't a snowballs chance. Your H cannot fix them for your...your problems lie in yourself. Your C is correct in telling your H NOT to give you false affirmations. He shouldnt have to just to salve your ego or hurt feelings. Once YOU start fixing YOU then I bet the rest will fall into place.

My apologies if i seem overly harsh...this is just something I learned the hard way.

Zoo

"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm." - Mahatma Gandhi