Sorry the last post was a novel. I am so happy with the progress and wanted to make sure I wrote it all down. Even though the many thoughts coming from the W were mostly negative towards me, tonight was a breath of fresh air. At least we are REALLY beginning to communicate about us.

W mentioned a quote that Oprah uses that my therapist knew as well.

"Forgiveness is giving up the idea that you can change the past".

I told my wife that I will not be able to change the past faults of our marriage, but I can now use them as building blocks for a stronger marriage starting now. I can only hope.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated