Hmmmmm...so I think your W is asking for space and you are not giving it to her. And if you don't give it to her she is going to take it. You really have to stop all of this. Who cares what is going on, on FB. She probably feels like she can't breathe and you are smothering her. If you want your W back you need to back off. Only discuss things that concern your son.
Sorry this is a little blunt, but you are nevr going to make it through this week end if you keep this up. You are going to drive yourself crazy. Please for your own sanity, stop this destructive behavior.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007