Good to hear from you. Keep your head up. Sounds like you are doing all the right things for now. I am proud of you. Hey, you do have a bit of angry tone in your voice right now, but that is to be expected. I spent three months after she left absolutely hating her for what she did. I filled my iPod with songs that pretty much said, "Hey, f*ck you, b*tch," and would go to the gym and blast my body and my ears with that stuff. But after some self-examination, I have turned a corner for the better. I will bet that you will too at some point. I changed the songs on my iPod a few weeks ago to just positive stuff. Keep in touch. I am a couple of months ahead of you on this same road. I can keep you abreast of the coming pitfalls and potholes.

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...