Rue, I am so sorry that you find yourself here. I am here knowing that many of my STBXH's traits are MLC - but I also know that he acts as if he wants NOTHING to do with me. What snodderly says is true - live your life as if...he is not coming back. Please know that I don't say this flippantly or easily - it is without a doubt the most difficult thing I have ever done. And I am so sorry - it is so painful. Please take care of yourself. IB
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
