OMG Punkin,my H said that I should spend the 'blood money' wisely because he would never be able to help me or the kids out again! He's been very good at helping the girls out, but in 17 months he's helped me twice. I've struggled through on my own.
I'm not sure why he thinks it's any different if it's in my hand or his? He will still be 'helping' us out.
Punkin, I certainly hope he never tells D12 anything and I don't think he would. The old H really loved his kids. I think he still does somewhere inside. He was an excellent Dad when they were little. In fact, he got used to my surprise pregnancy faster than I did! We both were excited about it after a bit.
Brook, I realize that it is falling on deaf ears right now, mainly because of his anger. There was just one thing I took him to task on because it was a lie. There were many other things that I wanted to let lose on him about, but I kept my mouth shut.
I'm not letting this throw me. I really have been expecting it, and wondered why it hadn't come before this. I hope he feels better having got it off his chest.
