Bolt, I like where this is going for you. Keep posting. I hope you don't mind, but I sometimes imagine myself in your situation and it makes me smile...

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...