Next, my heart goes out to you, buddy. I have no idea what that feels like yet, but I am sure I will. So, let me just say I will try to send some positive vibes your way tomorrow.

As for talking to her, I think that really needs to be your decision. At this point, it can't hurt. But I agree, no pleading, no begging, no crying. Just leave the door open for her in a way that will let her know it is safe to come back...

Good luck, my friend!

BITS will be with you tomorrow!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...