Sorry to disagree with my BITS, but I would send the text on Saturday. Don't call and don't answer if he calls after the text. But, do send it on Saturday, make it simple, possibly just three for four words, and then put the phone in the kitchen drawer for the rest of the evening. LIS is right. Don't ignore the day, but don't make it special for him either. Let him stew in those juices he has cooked up for himself...

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...