Twink, your H is still running, it may not be that he doesn't want to spend time with your D or even you, he probably cares his own way...but he may not be comfortable being with family right now.
They just don't seem to understand that their actions or inactions impact people and cause pain...it's like the MLCer has lack of empathetic attunement...they are just so self absorbed...I would even say narcissistic that they don't see what they do to others....it's just about them...me me me....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO