maybe it's just because i am tired of stepping lightly on the eggshells, but if he needed to be told, so be it
could you have been gentler in because of this sitch? maybe but heck, you are human and if you can't live your life worrying if every little rise in voice is going to cause him to move out
believe me i am in the same place
and this is hard
but we cannot lose ourselves in this process
i am sure, you didn't backslide
men don't want a nag (i hate that word) but... no one wants a doormat either, you know?