Are you absolutely certain we are not married to the same man? My H also sneered at people after someone died arguing over what he called 'blood money'. Well he's arguing plenty now. And the death was our marriage.

OMG! The SOB is out of control! Is he going to talk to your 12yo and tell her how he feels? WHAT A JERK!

Don't buy any of it, seeking. Not one word. He is talking through his a$$. I know what he said hurts, but none of it is true. Mine said I MADE him adopt my two youngest children, his daughters.

He can't be happy becuz he isn't happy. He's stuck and he doesn't know how to get out of the situation he is in without looking like the fool that he is.

Stick to your guns, Seeking. He is finding out there is more to the woman he left behind than he ever dreamed there was, or pretended there could be.

Our D24 told me today that the reason her Dad looked the way he does is because he knows what he has done and he can't get out of it. She feels sorry for him, nothing else. Hurts me to say, but she is right.