Bolt tunring again

[Bolt]

but LIS, don't feel stupid for being insecure. It's a natural thing that we guys, when we go there, don't even think about it being anything like that.

I've had friends say (and I'm SURE I've said it before), yeah, but I come home to you. That's all horse crap. You go to fulfill a need. Your W feels that she isn't able to fill that need for you and thus becomes insecure.

I'm glad I found that out now because I NEVER want her to feel insecure in our relationship.

I really don't know how I would have heard it back then. I would have maybe thought my W didn't "get it" and that she was trying to control me...I'm not sure but I think that's how I would have reacted...

I was a pretty selfish pig - and had zero idea I was.