Bolt, I agree with you on this... not understanding why women say one thing but mean another. I guess for some it is testing. In my case?? I was trying so hard to be the "cool" wife that I didn't want to tell him that it bothered me. I didn't want to expose that I was insecure about that. Like the ladies said, the strippers really do only look at you guys like an ATM. So, I guess I thought it was stupid to feel insecure about it. But I did...
