My dilemma is that I don't want to come across like the only reason I didn't put up a fight is because I thought *that* would get her back... I have to let her know that I want her to be happy and that is my only motivation.
I don't want it to seem like I "let" her do this and I really don't know how to put it into words without it coming across like that.
She made comments throughout the process like "you hear about people getting divorced and remarrying..." or "if you love it let it go..."
so I have hope. I believe that she wants to trust me. I just have to figure out how to let her feel free without feeling like I abandoned her lol
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