you know what? when my is on the road, he goes once in awhile
not very frequently maybe about 5 times a year of less
it really doesn't bother me, i do however, think a lap dance is a different story
most of the girls who work there look at guys as an atm machine anyway
exactly!
BUT as guys, at least as I DID, I didn't care. I knew I was paying for ATTENTION from a good looking woman. I didn't really care for the other stuff (believe it) and so I didn't look at it as cheating.
In MY mind, I wasn't doing anything wrong. I failed to see it through my W's eyes. EVEN when she said it was OK to go.
I'm not sure why women do that. Say one thing and mean another. I guess some of it is a test but you gals have to remember, we men are very stoopid animals. We ain't smart.
You say to go, we go. I'm not making excuses (mainly because I'm not smart enough to) but it is the truth...
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
