I lent my DR to a friend and haven't seen it since. :.( I do have DB though. How do the two differ?
No, he's not having an MLC. I know you are not completely familiar w/my sit, but I had been so needy/dependent/insecure/jealous/controlling and crying all the time that he got exhausted. He first tried to reassure me, but I continued to get upset.
Also, re: sex, I have NEVER EVER turned him down (until last night??). I'm usually the one saying I want more and pursuing him. I'm like the guy in the r is this regard, he is more concerned with the r and getting along. Obviously, my crying all the time is not a turn on. So, flirting has not gone over very well with him.
I just get tired for having to initiate snuggling/sex, where we go and what we do/making any plans, wanting to hear words. My LL is words/affirmation, his i would say is QT.
I know I am just banging my head against the wall. It hurts! I can feel it and I have huge lumps! OK, I must come to grips with this stuff. I know that I need to set some goals, give up a lot of this crap, stop worrying about what everyone else thinks of me and worry about what me thinks of me.
