W is out tonight at hockey game with girlfriend. She is a big sports fan. I would normally text her several times during the game and ask her how she is doing, plus I'd call when the game ended to see when she was coming home. Right now my cell is downstairs on mute and I'm trying not to touch it. I'm working hard on my 180 and trying to give space. I also started working out last week. I stopped by the local gym and did a tour, thinking about joining. Next big step is finances. My W has always managed the money, even though I was always the bigger earner. Now that she is unemployed (and I'm not sure if she is thinking about my best interest) it's time I took control of my financial future. I'm sure she will see it as a sign that I don't trust her, and she will probably react badly.
Me 45 W 43 Married 16 years S 14 D 11 (down syndrome) 10/2010 ILYBNILWY W EA 3/2006
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
