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how would you rate yourself on these areas and why?
what are you doing to change that?

The best barometer of this is how the women in your life, especially your wife, treat you.

My wife told me the other day "GH31 you are a very masculine man" which felt good.

You essentially need to exude an aura that says "I am so damn comfortable in my own skin it hurts" without overtly saying it.

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)