I haven't done everything wrong...

[islander]

Rue,
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I feel my W will not return even if she wanted to. And I really believe that. But what I don't understand also is why not just try, what could it hurt. But I don't think that counseling will work if one person doesn't want to go on their own. I know too that my M could be saved and that it could be better than ever. But as long as my W doesn't see that, it doesn't matter. I am trying as hard as it is to work on myself and make my home MY home. I hope that she will see that and atleast spark her interest. If not, I am moving on "whether I want to or not". I started going to church,and the more i go, the more I want to go. you should try listening to the music on Klove.com it really helps. If you never have, just give it a chance. it is the onlyl thing i listen to now...I am sorry we are going through this, but we will get better