HB - loved your post. You are so right on about listening to God through my intuition. That describes what I did to a "t".
Jack - I would agree that with most, coming here is not a good idea. I knew it would work for us but I didn't suggest that until reconciliation was a real thing. Even then, I wouldn't suggest it for everyone. On our first go round back together there is no way I would have told H about this place. I knew when it was the right time. For most there will never be a right time.
Sorry I fell off the earth for a few days - my S-8 got walking pneumonia and I haven't even turned on the computer.
I don't have as much time as I used to get on here, read people's situations and post, but will try to help if I feel I can.
