that post led me to a question. My W and I share the same therapist. BUT we haven't seen her together in a while. The T has been pretty open and not really taking sides - I can see she IS making us fight for the marriage.
I did wonder if it were good to have one therapist but have us each see her separately...
thoughts?
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE