Originally Posted By: spellfire
Just please do it soon. If you want to have a shot at changing her mind, you must change.


Lately with all that's going on - with everyone that cares advising me to file first, fight for my son, to call the authorities, to protect myself, do this, do that -- I forget that, like you said, I DO have a shot at changing my wife's mind, and the only way I can do that is care about me. I need to get back on schedule - work out, eat well, sleep well, play well, hang out and maintain accountability with friends, GET A JOB, be an awesome father, among other things. Thanks for the shot in the arm, Mike. I might need more of them as Saturday draws close.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
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I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
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