Silly gave you good advice in this thread you posted in another section. Please have another read in case you overlooked the suggestions:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2124942#Post2124942

Let me know what you think.

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A