At some point you need to stop crying and feeling sorry for yourself man.
Rings are just "things", as are all the cards, exchanged gifts, the items you bought together.
I know it is hard not to feel sentimental and sorry for yourself in a situation such as yours, but now is not the time to wallow in the past, it is a time to start anew, with you as the raw ingredient.
I am sorry again if this sounds harsh. It surely does when you are hurting. I can only tell you that despite not knowing you, I really do care. I want you to overcome. I want to see you grow strong.
Please be done with this thread and get back to your main one. Decide to do this, or decide to continue feeling sorry for yourself. Just please do it soon. If you want to have a shot at changing her mind, you must change.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
