Originally Posted By: AJM80
H and I are getting along really well, but no "progress". That's impatient me being blind to the real progress, I think.


I have discovered the fantastic feeling of little victories. Staying extremely patient but seeing the small improvements.

Originally Posted By: AJM80

We're talking and texting - I need to back way off on that. I send more than he replies. He likes them, but that's not the point.


Same here. Since we drop off our son back and forth every day, there is a ton of logistical conversation going back and forth. Bolt and Mach have been preaching detachment. I have been trying to go entire days right now without a call or text. It seems so childish to me, this play hard to get thing, but I it is amazing how it works.

Originally Posted By: AJM80

I am glad to go out with my friends and am going to try to keep them from getting me totally intoxicated. Cause they are spending the night, but my babysitting H isn't.


Have a blast with your friends!


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated