harrier - sorry about the ripping the heart out comment..I didn't mean it THAT way...I should have used the analogy of breaking legs or something.

I simply meant to focus on the healing process smile

DOH! Sorry for any undue anger or sadness smile

ugh...the reading thing. I've gone through that. I think that EXACT same thing and have had that convo as well. But you know what, she'll start feeling "bad" about reading and feel guarded. My W did until I realized that - she's just reading...


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE