harrier - sorry about the ripping the heart out comment..I didn't mean it THAT way...I should have used the analogy of breaking legs or something.
I simply meant to focus on the healing process
DOH! Sorry for any undue anger or sadness
ugh...the reading thing. I've gone through that. I think that EXACT same thing and have had that convo as well. But you know what, she'll start feeling "bad" about reading and feel guarded. My W did until I realized that - she's just reading...
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE