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I wouldn't be surprised if he wrapped up a D and gave it to me for xmas.

I wanted to find an appropriate xmas card, but can't find one that says, "gee, i've been such an @sshole. Thanks for spending the holidays with me anyway." so i got a cute one and may just write that on the side.

karen




No, he isn't going to wrap up a D and give it to you for Christmas.

Are you sure you want to write that on the card? IF you feel you need to as a way of apologizing then do, but otherwise what everyone kept hitting me over the head with and I understand now, don't always manage, ACTIONS, NOT WORDS!!!

Show him you are glad he is spending the holidays with you, do little special things as well as giving him some space.

Be Fun, Centered and Calm!!!!!!!

YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!!!!!!

Have a great day today!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"