Better days are coming for ALL of us. II

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LIS!!!

I'm so dang happy for you!
I know it's so hard dealing with those ups and downs. Denver is right about not feeling any pressure about the R. I think that's a huge part of the GAL - stop putting pressure on yourself about it. I also look at it as for our S to get that LAST feeling of getting out, it may be a rather large event. It may not but I doubt that you GALing and occasionally including him (more as a friend) and not putting pressure on the R, will make him leave for good.

I'm trying that approach at least. I seem to have a more and more willing partner each day but I am NOT bringing up any R talk just yet. Let it simmer.

LOVE the lingerie (of course, cuz I'm a dude). You KNOW it's eating him alive inside. ESPECIALLY if you look hot. HA! I LOVE IT!

Let me say, be prepared for those ups/downs even throughout the day. BUT let me also say, a TON of that is in your mind. Both the ups and the downs.

I've been posting quite a bit more on the piecing thread but my example was when my W sleeps on the furthest part of the bed possible. In MY head, she's rejecting me. In reality? She's freaking SLEEPING!

This stuff drives you nuts sometimes.

By the way, I do check out that FB page too and comment from time to time because I will take any kind of help I can get these days.

stay strong, sweetie!!!