Divorced, now what?

[confoundedhubby]

Okay, DBers, here's one for you...how to handle this...she just moved out to her brother's house..called me today in tears, (her brother is a 33 yo single bachelor, and is kinda picky about his stuff, as is his right, he worked hard for all he has)..apparently he made comment that "this wasnt going to work" and she has said that the reason for her going to his place was to avoid apartment lease issues, etc, and to give her time "to think"...I was supportive, but did not offer help in any way, nor did she ask...but now she says she is going apt shopping, which will be a minimum 6 month lease...anyway, am trying to play it cool and just be there for her, w/o offering a way out..any advice? Oh and btw, don't know if there is OM involved in this situation or not, as I obviously have no visisbility on anything she does, and I think is best that I don't, to be frank. Any advice would be useful, and if anyone could maybe help me move this topic to the correct board, maybe that would help..hard to put it all in one message