Today feels worse than the first day H left. I feel no hope is left. I sit here and think does he feel atleast half the pain i feel. And why wouldnt you want to atleast try and save a marriage. Whats wrong with trying? Instead I get a call from atty today wanting to sit down with H and his atty do discuss finances. I couldnt even answer yes or no to him. I dont want this. I know my atty is just trying to protect me but it seems so final whenever i talk to atty. I asked atty today if the court ever orders counselling between spouses and he said no, usually when minor kids are involved, which mine are adults. I was holding out for maybe that chance but doesnt seem like that is possible. Does anyone have any clever way of getting your WAS to therapy when they dont want to go? I know there is so much to save here. I know in my heart there is. We have never tried therapy together. Only me. Take care everyone. ( )'s
