Maybe my sitch is more just wanting out then. I have very little contact with him. Usually texts an only when he deems it appropriate to answer. H left 9 years ago and came back for the sames reasons except this time EA is in the picture. Maybe that time 9 years ago was his midlife crisis. Im tryin everything i can to save this. Its just hard knowing there is someone else in the picture. I am applying all my db techniques but dont seem to be getting anywhere. WHen i have seen him he doesnt act like himself at all. Very distant, seems depressed, no eye contact. This day has been yet another teary day. I wish i could go back and change things. He says the OW is nice. He left his family for OW who is nice.