My wife seems to be leaving everything that has connections with me, e.g. Gifts, books, pictures, cards, wedding gifts, baby seats, etc. Some of what she's taking with her kind of infuriates me, such as some of our son's clothes that HER family or friends bought. I mean, he still will be spending some days with me, so why can she take the nice clothes, and leaving me with older crap? I guess she's thinking what's hers is hers, which in this case, is rather childish. It's our son's clothes, for crying out loud.
You know some things dont change i guess. My W did the same exact thing. Anything that had to do anything with her or her family is gone. She everything that ever belonged to my daughter. I somehow thought that she might leave some toys or clothes behind so that when my daughter comes home to me she'll have something. Instead everything that was my daughter's is gone. That's been the worst part. Then she tells me that she had to sell off lot of my daughter's stuff because there was no place in her parents house. Seriously seemed childish. But you know what, if my W wants to dig a hole now, i'd rather give her a shovel than try to talk her out of it.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...