For me, MLC in my wife meant confusion on her part at first and later. There were times she seemed very intent on some of her choices. But there always seemed to be a hint of uncertainty even at her worst.
So my answer about MLC is if they seemed confused, if they don't entirely let go of you, if they keep you in their life...not to be read as you keeping them in yours, but them keeping you in theirs.
That being said, it is really up to you to determine this, no one here is a professional as far as I know. And even then about half of them are split as to whether or not they ascribe to MLC.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
