Well, today H responded to the email I sent him on Sat. He is very angry and didn't hold back about me getting a L. He also let loose on everything I ever did that PO him in the last 30 years.
Admittedly, some of it would have devastated me before this. Those are things I've worked on. Some of them I've laid to rest, others I continue to work on.
H resorted to threats about how the kids wouldn't have Christmases from him, or clothes, or get to go out for 100 dollar a pop movie and lunch.
There were a couple things I called him on. I also told him he has to live with the consequences of his choices, just the same as I do.
He told me he didn't wish me any ill will but he'd better stop there before he started to.