Well, I chatted with BIL on FB last night. He didn't even know W and kids were not at home or have any clue what was going on.
Not sure what the effect is going to be, but he was understanding and eager to help. I told him that I am doing everything I can to make things right. He then offered to talk to W (I didn't ask). Hopefully W will understand why I did it.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.