Today is day 3 no contact seems odd for my sitch but I will take the good with the bad.
She may need some time to process all that's been going on. She may need a break; it might even be because you asked about coming to visit. Who knows. What I do know is that no contact is not necessarily bad. It gives her time to miss you, and that time works in your favor.
Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
After I got the answer I knew I would get I was thinking "nice job deuche" but two things happened I thought where important. 1. I reinforced that I was here for her and she acknowledged it 2. She did not say I don't want to see you, she said I'm not ready yet.
Then what was the point of asking? Jody told you. You even knew. Yet you asked.
The fact that she didn't say she didn't want to see you can be viewed as a positive. And should be. But that feeling would be the same whether you had asked or not. She's not ready yet. We all know that. Asking can prolong the process, it's usually better to just sit tight and wait. Actions speak louder than words regardless.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
2step, it makes me happy when i don't miss him i honestly hope i have more of those days today i just feel like sticking my tongue out at him and going "nah" hey i just read the first post on that page i liked it as well
