No way on the counseling thing. It was making him angry. He really fears it. No way I'm pushing that further.
The ice thing definitely needs to be fixed. What you are dealing with here are two very stubborn, very strong-willed people.
This morning, he was reaching out to grab me. This afternoon, couldn't care less. So some meds might help that too, right??? Maybe some kind of anti-psychotic??
Seriously, though, just trying to have more of a sense of humor about it. It helps me from snapping!!!