Counseling is out of the question. He refuses and I'm not going to push it.
I asked him out on the date. That didn't go so well. Forgot to mention that. I mean he said yes but you know it was like when the TSA people ask if they can give you a colonoscopy. I mean you say yes, BUT really you don't have a choice.
Now, we spent a lot of time this weekend hanging out and not talking about R issues. But for us, that wall is still there.
He's just very up and down at the moment. Tough roller coaster.
I'm not so sure that you shouldn't push the counseling thing... but you know H better than me (hopefully )
Ok on the date thing... forget it then...
wait a week or two and then plan your own date... tell him what you are doing and that you'd 'love' for him to go along... if he does fantastic... if not, you go and still have a good time...
I don't think that you should forget your own GAL here LIS...
He will wonder what he is missing out on if you follow through...
Somehow we've got to figure out how to crack the ice bw you two...
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