Hi Wanda - I was away for the weekend and am just catching up on all that's been happening to you. I'm sad for your situation, but happy for you that you know what you're willing to put up with and have control over how you're reacting. Once some of the crap settles and you keep moving on, I hope you go from feeling like you lost to more optimism about freedom from a dangerous influence in your life. Sure he'll still be around, but the person he is now is putting your health and safety at risk with his dangerous behaviors (criminal attempted rape? Std's etc).
Be safe, change your locks, teach your son that strippers are not cool. I hope he hits bottom and turns things around so he can be a good father and coparent.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
