Counseling is out of the question. He refuses and I'm not going to push it.

I asked him out on the date. That didn't go so well. Forgot to mention that. I mean he said yes but you know it was like when the TSA people ask if they can give you a colonoscopy. I mean you say yes, BUT really you don't have a choice.

Now, we spent a lot of time this weekend hanging out and not talking about R issues. But for us, that wall is still there.

He's just very up and down at the moment. Tough roller coaster.


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11