1: DR book by michele 2: The myth of the male power (odd book i found at half price books) 3: Anxious to please (This is the best book that accurately and fully described my behavior in my marriage. This was a godsend) 4: Six pillars of self esteem 5: I just ordered "Hold me tight"
Apart from reading these i also keep 2 journals. One for daily use and other to track my anxiety thoughts.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...