Oh, you and me... we're DEFINITELY seeing eye to eye at the moment. Don't worry your pretty little head about that.
I know it's hard to be patient. But, in the end, do you have a choice? Not if you want your W back, you don't. So settle on down and be prepared to stay here in this for a little while. Part of it stinks because your ego will take a bruising a bit. It was easier when we were apart as there was less of an opportunity for him to hurt me. So I get where you are. I am a fixer too... so I just want to patch the whole thing up and call it fixed. But life doesn't work like that.
Hang in there, sweetie. We're definitely in this boat together at the moment. And there aren't a lot of people I trust to be stuck with - but you, I know you will save me from my stupidity and hopefully you will find some strength to be more patient. We just need to keep believing that we ARE going to get our spouses back.
