Moments with one another that don't revolve around the problems with your M...
LIS, I've spent 7 days straight with my W and we have only discussed R one time ... The rest of our moments together have been spent grieving her grandma's passing, hanging out with her family, having drinks together, dinner, talking about 'other' stuff...
Even though I still sense that invisible wall between us, it has weakened substantially over the last week.
I attribute this to just being 'us'... together... not focusing on the bad...
Have you asked your H on that date yet????
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce